Our midnight kisses
Felt like hope.
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Friday, December 14, 2012
Thursday, December 6, 2012
prayers of the people: December 9
Heavenly Father,
we come to you as your people
your lacking
but faithful
people
We ask that you come to us
that we may share in Mary's joy
as people victorious
as people who clearly see who we have been
and what you have asked of us
as people who are stretched and changed
as people who know
that peace is always born
of travail.
Together, we ask you to
Come, Lord Jesus.
Come to your world as King of the nations.
Come to North Korea, where the government prepare for a long-range missile test.
Come to Syria, where the civil war continues.
Come to Israel and Palestine, where barely established peace agreements are threatened.
Come to Egypt, where people cry for a new constitution and for equality.
Come to the Northeastern United States, where Hurricane Sandy recovery efforts continue.
Come, Lord Jesus.
Come to the suffering as Saviour.
We pray that the sick will be restored
the fallen will be raised
the heartbroken, the survivors, the orphans, and the widows will
be consoled.
We pray for the dearly departed,
especially _______
and those we name at this time.
May they share in your victory over evil and death.
Come, Lord Jesus.
Come to us as guardian of our souls.
Break into our lives,
where we struggle with direction:
we struggle to believe that here, now, is where we are meant to
be.
Set us free to love and serve,
and may the light of God's coming dawn shine
on those who only feel darkness
on those who live within the shadow of death
and on those who see the future through fog, as they try to
discern next steps.
And allow us all to shine
so that you may find in us the completion of your redeeming
work.
Come, Lord Jesus.
Come to us as a listener
As we name at this time
all we have to be thankful for
all of our blessings
and all of our gifts.
Come, Lord Jesus.
Come to us as shepherd.
As we gather gifts and decorations and lists
gather travel plans
gather comfort and kindness
Remind us to slow down
to find awe
to wonder
to be.
Come, Lord Jesus.
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
travail
(written by June M. Schulte)
Out of the depth and quiet
of this chill, stark night,
a gnawing ache, a yearning
deepens, rising
like a threatening wave.
The young woman trembles.
Every inmost part of her is
shaken, all comfort broken.
Her hand gropes for something firm to grasp,
but all that was certain has become
obscure, all encompassing,
racked with pain.
Scarcely able to catch her breath,
she feels each wave larger, more
frightening than the last.
And as the great wave breaks over her,
she is broken,
momentarily forgetting what she accepted,
what love she bears,
yet choosing to believe when all seems lost.
Suddenly and completely
she, still bathed in sweat,
enfolds love in her arms,
knows joy as one victorious,
sees clearly as one who has been
stretched and changed,
that peace is always
born of travail.
Out of the depth and quiet
of this chill, stark night,
a gnawing ache, a yearning
deepens, rising
like a threatening wave.
The young woman trembles.
Every inmost part of her is
shaken, all comfort broken.
Her hand gropes for something firm to grasp,
but all that was certain has become
obscure, all encompassing,
racked with pain.
Scarcely able to catch her breath,
she feels each wave larger, more
frightening than the last.
And as the great wave breaks over her,
she is broken,
momentarily forgetting what she accepted,
what love she bears,
yet choosing to believe when all seems lost.
Suddenly and completely
she, still bathed in sweat,
enfolds love in her arms,
knows joy as one victorious,
sees clearly as one who has been
stretched and changed,
that peace is always
born of travail.
Saturday, December 1, 2012
glance
it's all the tiny moments
the ones you can't capture in words
or even, in some cases, on film
the ones you try to recount to your friends later
as evidence of his love, her laughter, their interest
and feel silly doing so
because there aren't words for
the way he looked with another
that made you certain
he was (not) meant to be yours
the touch that lingered
the smile that betrayed
or denied
or confirmed
or led you to believe
no
to know
you would never be alone again.
the ones you can't capture in words
or even, in some cases, on film
the ones you try to recount to your friends later
as evidence of his love, her laughter, their interest
and feel silly doing so
because there aren't words for
the way he looked with another
that made you certain
he was (not) meant to be yours
the touch that lingered
the smile that betrayed
or denied
or confirmed
or led you to believe
no
to know
you would never be alone again.
Wednesday, November 28, 2012
crystal
I am dating a man who has toddler. She loves bacon above all other major food groups, and she's also incredibly adorable and smart and polite and all other things people should be. Basically, we could be (and are) friends with her.
Last night, she was pointing out and naming the ornaments on my Christmas tree.
My grandmother gave me gorgeous crystal ornaments about a decade ago. Paired with white lights, it makes a very simple, but elegant, tree.
To the toddler, any bird that is not easily recognizable (chicken, peacock, flamingo) is a duck. My exquisite hummingbirds are "ducks." She mistook pineapples for apples, but, hey, at least it's fruit. Bells she got right on the first try. (I told you she's smart!)
She called one of my angels a "bumblebee," and I burst into tears.
*
Several years ago, my mother's godmother was diagnosed with cancer. She was in such pain that she refused food, and then water. She died very quickly, as one can imagine.
When my mother visited to say her final goodbye, she asked Margie how to still feel her presence, after Margie had moved to a world without pain.
Margie always loved butterflies, so she told my mother that whenever a butterfly floated by, my mother would know Margie was there.
*
You hear this a lot. For a period of time after a person dies, his/her loved ones see bunnies everywhere. Or hear a woodpecker. Or lights are turned on or off, inexplicably.
*
Anytime I see a butterfly, I think of Margie. She was an incredibly sweet soul. Her husband is one of my grandfather's oldest friends, which means that he and Margie were likely my grandparents' oldest "couple" friends. Both of my grandparents were devastated when she passed, so suddenly and with so much suffering.
*
So there are angels on my tree. Angels my grandmother gave me when Margie still lived. And here's a little girl, saying "bumblebee," and suddenly I feel angels present. I feel my grandmother's presence, decorating my home in warmth and light; I feel my mother's presence, loving me from 1000 miles away.
And I see this little girl, this shining, beautiful creature of goodness, and I am reminded of all things Christmas is meant to be.
And I weep tears of gratitude.
Last night, she was pointing out and naming the ornaments on my Christmas tree.
My grandmother gave me gorgeous crystal ornaments about a decade ago. Paired with white lights, it makes a very simple, but elegant, tree.
To the toddler, any bird that is not easily recognizable (chicken, peacock, flamingo) is a duck. My exquisite hummingbirds are "ducks." She mistook pineapples for apples, but, hey, at least it's fruit. Bells she got right on the first try. (I told you she's smart!)
She called one of my angels a "bumblebee," and I burst into tears.
*
Several years ago, my mother's godmother was diagnosed with cancer. She was in such pain that she refused food, and then water. She died very quickly, as one can imagine.
When my mother visited to say her final goodbye, she asked Margie how to still feel her presence, after Margie had moved to a world without pain.
Margie always loved butterflies, so she told my mother that whenever a butterfly floated by, my mother would know Margie was there.
*
You hear this a lot. For a period of time after a person dies, his/her loved ones see bunnies everywhere. Or hear a woodpecker. Or lights are turned on or off, inexplicably.
*
Anytime I see a butterfly, I think of Margie. She was an incredibly sweet soul. Her husband is one of my grandfather's oldest friends, which means that he and Margie were likely my grandparents' oldest "couple" friends. Both of my grandparents were devastated when she passed, so suddenly and with so much suffering.
*
So there are angels on my tree. Angels my grandmother gave me when Margie still lived. And here's a little girl, saying "bumblebee," and suddenly I feel angels present. I feel my grandmother's presence, decorating my home in warmth and light; I feel my mother's presence, loving me from 1000 miles away.
And I see this little girl, this shining, beautiful creature of goodness, and I am reminded of all things Christmas is meant to be.
And I weep tears of gratitude.
Monday, November 26, 2012
doors
Today, we had a staff retreat. I don't talk much about work, because you can read all about my work here, and from that website you can find my bio and a lot of other things that would make my grandmother proud if she knew how to use the Internet. Or, for that matter, a computer.
*
Icebreakers. Pretty much the worst thing in the universe, right? Suddenly, you're expected to tell strangers two truths and a lie about yourself. Or XXX number of unique things about yourself.
I'm tempted to list lies and truths and unique things about myself. And let y'all choose which are which. But I'll spare us.
So. "Pair and Share." I'm paired with another member of our staff (duh.), and one of the questions from the script we're given is "An experience within a New Orleans school that really impacted you was..."
*
Before I lived in New Orleans, I worked for the National Center for Educational Achievement, researching high performing, high poverty high schools. (Those of you who read my bio or have spent any time with me already know this.) I traveled the country interviewing district and school staff about what they thought were their best practices, and I wrote case studies.
So when I moved to New Orleans in September 2008, I had an idea of what high schools could (or should) be like.
Within my first week, I was interviewing high school leadership teams to be a part of a program that wouldn't have a name for another three months. As such, I needed to recruit high schools, which meant visiting them.
Now, let's be clear. High poverty, high minority high schools are quite often in not-so-great neighborhoods. I had spent time in three time zones, lost in neighborhoods I didn't want to be lost in, where I didn't speak the language(s), where I did not feel particularly safe.
Never in the history of my life had I walked into a high school with a metal detector. That honor was awarded to Joseph S. Clark High School in September 2008.
Immediately, I felt unsafe. I felt like the front entrance indicated that the focus of this school was not on student learning.
Since September 2008, the school has been chartered. Probably close to 100%* of the school staff have been replaced. (*I am guessing at this. But if we had access to that kind of data, we'd know I was right.)
In August 2012, I once again visited Clark. I did not walk through metal detectors. I observed an Advanced Placement classroom. I fought back tears of gratitude for the opportunity to make this kind of difference in the lives of children.
*
My partner, who has done lots of work with opportunity youth, visited APEX Youth Center this summer. She said that the woman who runs it claims that it is different from other programs because they do not have entrance requirements.
"The only barrier is the front door."
*
So many times in my life
the only barrier has been a front door:
parties where I expected to not know anyone
offices I desperately wanted to employ me
restaurants I was scared I was not ____ enough for
planes that would take me to another country
classrooms led by professors who intimidated me
the unknown.
But the door is open
so you leap
and the next thing you know
your focus has changed.
*
Icebreakers. Pretty much the worst thing in the universe, right? Suddenly, you're expected to tell strangers two truths and a lie about yourself. Or XXX number of unique things about yourself.
I'm tempted to list lies and truths and unique things about myself. And let y'all choose which are which. But I'll spare us.
So. "Pair and Share." I'm paired with another member of our staff (duh.), and one of the questions from the script we're given is "An experience within a New Orleans school that really impacted you was..."
*
Before I lived in New Orleans, I worked for the National Center for Educational Achievement, researching high performing, high poverty high schools. (Those of you who read my bio or have spent any time with me already know this.) I traveled the country interviewing district and school staff about what they thought were their best practices, and I wrote case studies.
So when I moved to New Orleans in September 2008, I had an idea of what high schools could (or should) be like.
Within my first week, I was interviewing high school leadership teams to be a part of a program that wouldn't have a name for another three months. As such, I needed to recruit high schools, which meant visiting them.
Now, let's be clear. High poverty, high minority high schools are quite often in not-so-great neighborhoods. I had spent time in three time zones, lost in neighborhoods I didn't want to be lost in, where I didn't speak the language(s), where I did not feel particularly safe.
Never in the history of my life had I walked into a high school with a metal detector. That honor was awarded to Joseph S. Clark High School in September 2008.
Immediately, I felt unsafe. I felt like the front entrance indicated that the focus of this school was not on student learning.
Since September 2008, the school has been chartered. Probably close to 100%* of the school staff have been replaced. (*I am guessing at this. But if we had access to that kind of data, we'd know I was right.)
In August 2012, I once again visited Clark. I did not walk through metal detectors. I observed an Advanced Placement classroom. I fought back tears of gratitude for the opportunity to make this kind of difference in the lives of children.
*
My partner, who has done lots of work with opportunity youth, visited APEX Youth Center this summer. She said that the woman who runs it claims that it is different from other programs because they do not have entrance requirements.
"The only barrier is the front door."
*
So many times in my life
the only barrier has been a front door:
parties where I expected to not know anyone
offices I desperately wanted to employ me
restaurants I was scared I was not ____ enough for
planes that would take me to another country
classrooms led by professors who intimidated me
the unknown.
But the door is open
so you leap
and the next thing you know
your focus has changed.
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